What turkey day?

Yes so today (thursday) i just relaxed and decided to finally finish my silent hill game which was dam hard and dam cool seeing that girl shooting this HUGE woman like called "god" which really reminds me of church when i was a little kid and ...well i passed it. The next thing i was doing is formating my whole hard drive and install 2 Operating systems in one hard drive which are

• Windows XP
• Windows Vista Ultimate

Even if i did partition my hard drives in half i still think i should buy a spare TERABITE for this computer but its not worth it if its going to run vista slow (dam ram capasity) anyways if you guys would like to know how to partition your hard drive without setting your BIOS you shouldwait until monday so i can gather information and be sure im typing it right. :D

But before we get any further, i would like to talk about couples and when one of them leaves the love field and search himself , im sure we all have been there "you just dont act the same?" or "i feel like im waisting my time with you" these are the most common thinkings spouses think when they know they cant no longer stay with the opposite and decide to leave. The real questions they are looking for is

"WHY IS MY LOVE LIFE GETTING SO LOW AND DOWN?"

Ill tell you why? YOU are not keeping yourself busy and instead of looking of what you got you keep waiting for that best part of your life to be fresh and become so clean that its imposible for us to figure out that "us humans ,we are never satisfied" and you know this is true.This is why i alwasy tell couples once they move in together "you guys are basicly married now and expect some downfalls" but here area  few guides that will keep your mind out of those issues that will eventually take care of themselfs.

• Join a group-It doent have to be a shrink,it can be the gym or a book club,just be sure you get some stuff done of your own and learn and grow so you can show your partner and yourself what new things can come from it.
• ME TIME-Take a walk by yourself or just take a drive BY YOURSELF,this is a great way to give your spouse time and space and think of the wonderful things you got and what you can do to improve it and also how to improve yourself. Maybe you can plan a romantic dinner while shes/hes away. 
• Dont Break the Rules-Even if you like to be in the single world keep in mind that you have limited and restricted yourself from doing things like (kissing other people and having sex with them) unless your spouse approves. Just be strong minded and dont confuse your piece of mind as an opportunity to find another person. If you both think like that,the its a set for both parties and continue your own ways.
• THINK POSITIVE-Alot of people dont appreciate what they got and they slack off or think they are now want to give up what they got to find something better,this is when you think negative and say "I dont like using this anymore,i want something new" 

Talking about Positive?

Remember that just because you got a partner that cooks and cleans doent mean that you have to stop doing those things, be sure to do what is best for him and her and also disipline yourself to work hard so you dont ever fail on anything. Do things that you know YOU WILL NOT REGREAT but say to yourself "i did my best to love you and thats all that matters" The way you treat him and her DOES MATTER, so when you take that "me time" really think of how you treat him/her.

Making Problems?
We all know that sometimes we dont get our way and we do things to make them do it,heres an example
"james i want to go to bed,lets go to bed?" and hes just want to stay in the couch and you begin to get mad,NOW SERIOUSLY, WHY WOULD YOU GET MAD IF HE DOENT WANT TO COME CUDDLE WITH YOU OR GO TO BED? you already know by now that we all think diffrent and sometimes we get mad because our spouse is not following our orders.
Try to calm down and undertand his wishes and instead of saying "you are worthless,im breaking up with you and im leaving"  instead of that think positive and say  "I know you are probrally wanting time to yourself honey, i'll go and read a book and see you in the morning" it may be hard and you could eventually lie to yourself but be sure that you ALSO use the rules i listed UP THERE so you dont feel like you are beeing abondoned by your lover.

These items may or may not work but always think positive and never let yourself down if things dont work.

ALWAYS GROW AND ALWAYS LEARN NEW THINGS so you can see what you never knew before.